January 15, 2013

A very common topic in the society.

I feel like writing lots of things these few days. Suddenly I think of this topic: bullying. Yes, this is very common situation in the society. Some are being bullied in directly but most people bully others straight to the point. I somehow feel a bit of it although it's not bullying (I guess).

An example: a friend of you has a friend who is actually not that fat but she's not skinny. Then your friend likes to joke about it, saying she's fat indirectly. She's smiling or laughing but deep inside she always feel under pressure because of those words. She isnt confident when being around with girls who are thinner that her. Actually this is not really important, some of you may only take that as a joke but for a girl/woman, telling she's fat or ugly is just a sensitive matter. Till now, I never said directly if someone is fat or what, because everybody has their minus point. If you feel you want to comment about something, dont say it to the person if it's not important. You may judge a book by its cover, but the cover has many parts: color, illustration, picture, keyword, etc so see things from different side.

“When people hurt you over and over, think of them like sandpaper. They may scratch and hurt you a bit, but in the end, you end up polished and they end up useless.” - Chris Colfer

PS: Im being melancholic not random anymore.

I miss my long hair.

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